i've implemented a self referencing hierarchical grid with editable parent & child rows.

the issue is that after the update on a row, it auto-expands the edited row & all children. and it leave the '+' icon on the newly expanded rows so that the user needs to click the icon twice to actually collapse each row.

is there a solution/workaround to prevent the rows from auto-expanding?

note: i am not calling refresh on the grid update.. i am just changing the cell values on the serverside inside the update event. i do not want to call refresh due to the amount of data i am binding and the time it takes to get that data from the database.